Chocolate, oils and wine. Oh my!


Chocolate, oils and wine, oh my!

Last night I hosted a couple of The Joyful Oilers and a few of their friends for a ladies’ night in featuring chocolate, wine and the best essential oils on Earth.  We had ladies from Oceanside, Vista, Carlsbad, La Jolla and the greater San Diego area.  It was a delight for the senses.  We had the diffuser going and we had a variety of organic wines to choose from.  I sipped on red wine infused with Lime Vitality and Orange Vitality essential oils, which made for a tasty sangria like beverage.  I baked Peppermint Vitality infused brownies and organic, gluten free, dairy free chocolate chip cookies. The cookies were also grain free and vegan, but you’d never know it.  I made a yummy cheesecake dip infused with Lemon Vitality essential oil for our organic fruit, and of course we had a cheese platter.  There were many chocolates to choose from, and we had some savory snacks to break up all of the sweetness.  It was a super yummy night.

We talked about why we choose Young Living essential oils over all the other brands on the market, because of their Seed to Seal guarantee, the fact that they own their own organic farms and their transparency.  We talked about how the FDA treats essential oils as “fragrance” under the larger umbrella of “cosmetics” so even essential oils labeled as USDA organic can contain ingredients other than essential oils and they don’t have to disclose it.  Oils sold as “fragrance” are exempt under the Fair Packaging and Labeling Act (FPLA) because “This law is not allowed to be used to force a company to tell ‘trade secrets.’ Fragrance and flavor formulas are complex mixtures of many different natural and synthetic chemical ingredients, and they are the kinds of cosmetic components that are most likely to be ‘trade secrets.’”  This is why it is so important to know and trust your source, especially if you intend to use these products on your body or in your food.  Please, please, PLEASE do not ingest essential oils you buy at the store.  In fact, most oils you buy at the store (even “organic” ones) will say right on the label “NOT FOR INTERNAL USE” and this is because they are sold as fragrance.

Young Living is the only company to have a line of essential oils made specifically for ingestion.  They have the Vitality line, a line of essential oils bottled and labeled for dietary use. They are FDA approved as dietary supplements, something other essential oil companies cannot say.  Hint: this is what I used to create some of the yummy treats I made for last night’s chocolate, oils and wine night.


Speaking of yummy treats, I’ll share with you one of the recipes I created for last night’s event.  Here is my Peppermint Vitality infused brownie recipe:

Peppermint Vitality Infused Fudgy Brownies


-1 cup organic unbleached all-purpose flour
-3/4 cup organic Dutch-process cocoa
-2 cups sugar
-1/4 teaspoon salt*
-1/4 teaspoon baking powder
-1 teaspoon espresso powder
-3 large eggs
-1/2 cup (1 stick) butter, melted
-1/4 cup melted coconut oil
-2 teaspoons vanilla extract
-4 drops Peppermint Vitality essential oil

*Increase the salt to 1/2 teaspoon if you use unsalted butter.



  1. Preheat the oven to 375°F. Lightly grease a 9″ x 13″ pan.
  2. Put all of the ingredients into a large bowl in the order in which they’re written. Stir, then beat the mixture until it’s smooth.
  3. Spoon the batter into the prepared pan.
  4. Bake the brownies for 25 to 30 minutes, or until they’re just barely beginning to pull away from the sides of the pan.
  5. Remove the brownies from the oven; let them cool completely before cutting. 
  6. Enjoy! This recipe yields about 2 dozen 2″ brownies.

If you’re not into baking stuff from scratch or if you have dietary restrictions, you can always use your favorite box mix and add your drops of Peppermint Vitality essential oil to your own batter before baking.  We won’t tell. 😉



So all in all, last night was pretty awesome, so much so that The Joyful Oilers are already planning the next one in June.  If you are local to the greater San Diego area and want to come to the next one, get in touch with your favorite Joyful Oiler for all of the details.  Or if you’d like to host one in your own home with your own friends, let me know and I can help you out with that too.  Thanks for reading!  xoxo





May Faire, Mother’s Day and an AMAZING Oily Giveaway

Hi friends,

I haven’t been on social media much lately, except for the daily Instagram post sharing the Oil a Day Giveaway.  More on that later!  Spring has been busy busy for me.  I am so grateful for my Young Living income because it has allowed me the flexibility to be as involved with my kids’ school as I want to be, which this year has been quite a lot.  I am our Waldorf school’s Chat ‘n Craft lady, which is awesome because it serves as a creative outlet and allows me to socialize with a lot of other awesome mamas. I also do a lot of sewing for the nursery kindergarten and 1st grade classes, which I love.

Recently I got to volunteer to help the kiddos with flower crown making for May Faire. I love love love floral crowns—for myself—but especially on sweet kiddos.  May Faire is one of my favorite Waldorf festivals because we have the opportunity to reconnect with our  greater community and rejoice in the fertility of a new season.  We gather to make floral crowns and then the older children weave the ribbons in a rainbow of colors around the May Pole, symbolizing the renewal of our connections to each other, weaving a stronger, healthier community.  It’s beautiful to watch.  Here is a video one of the parents took of this year’s festival:


Then we had Mother’s Day Tea, Mother’s Day and all month long (actually for a few months) me and several other moms busied ourselves with preparations for our fun glamping inspired fundraising soiree.  My friend and I made play teepees and embroidered flannel blankets.  A larger group of us made a ton of pretty dream catchers, felt toys, miniatures for fairy gardens, whimsical fairy garden baskets and so many other fun, crafty things.




fairy garden teepees


The night was magical, but now that it is over I can get back to sharing with all of you my love of all things essential oils.

I mentioned above that I have been posting an Oil A Day Giveaway on Instagram.  One of my dearest friends (and incidentally the one who introduced me to Young Living oils) heads an essential oil education group called Drop Talk on Facebook where people can go to learn how to incorporate oils into their daily lives.  She bought a Premier Aroma Collection from Young Living, a collection containing 120 bottles of oily goodness, and she has been giving away one bottle a day every day except for Sundays. She will continue to give bottles away until the entire collection is gone.  Amazing, right?!  She is the kindest, most generous lady I know, but I digress.  The point of this giveaway is to educate people on various essential oils and their uses.  Every morning (except Sundays) Jessica posts a picture of the oil she is giving away with the name blurred out and a description of that oil.  This goes down in our secret FB group.  If you guess correctly on the photo your name goes into a drawing for that oil, and she announces the winners the next day.  We have shipped off 37 oils so far, and in case you’re wondering, this giveaway is open world-wide.  Here are some of the oils we’ve given away so far:

Oil A Day Giveaway Winners


These are all of the oils that will be given away when it’s all said and done:

giveaway oils


Rose?!  Frankincense?! Yeah, this is pretty epic.  If you’d like to participate, go ahead and friend me on Facebook and let me know you’d like to be added to Drop Talk, the essential oil education group.  Then you can jump right in and start guessing.  This group is a pretty useful tool for learning all things oily, and it’s great because there’s no selling in there; it’s just oil education, and right now, LOTS of giveaways.  We’re on oil #38 today, and remember, there are 120 oils total!  Get in there and good luck to you.  I hope to connect with you soon.  Thanks for reading my friends, and enjoy what’s left of May!  As for me, tonight I celebrate 14 years of marriage with the love of my life, so I am going to go get dolled up and enjoy him and these roses he just brought me. Beautiful, wonderful May. 🙂



Essential Oil Dilution Chart By Age

Questions we hear a lot are:

Are essential oils safe for babies?

Which oils are best for kids?

Which oils should I avoid?

What dilution should I use with kids?

Find the answers to all of these question in our chart below.

(Please note: this is not an exhaustive list, so always check with your healthcare provider beforehand.)

Essential Oil Dilution Chart by Age

Age Use Dilution Good choices Avoid
Newborn to 6 months old Use oils very sparingly (if at all) and only for short-term relief 1 drop of essential oil per 4 tsps. of carrier oil Very gentle oils like Lavender, Orange, Ginger, Cedarwood, etc. Hot and potent oils like Oregano, Wintergreen, Cinnamon Bark, Peppermint, Rosemary, etc.
6 months to 2 years Use oils sparingly and only for short-term relief. 1 drop of essential oil per 3 tsps. of carrier oil Very gentle oils like Lavender, Orange, Ginger, Cedarwood, Frankincense, Lemon, etc. Hot and potent oils like Oregano, Wintergreen, Cinnamon Bark, Peppermint, Rosemary, etc.
2 years – 4 years Use oils as needed. Rotate oils frequently to prevent sensitivities. 1 drop essential oil per 2 tsps. carrier oil Gentle oils like Lavender, Citrus oils (avoid direct sunlight for 24 hours), Tea Tree, Pine, Cedarwood, Blue Tansy, etc. Hot and potent oils like Oregano, Wintergreen, Cinnamon Bark, Peppermint, Rosemary, etc.
4-6 years old Use oils as needed. Rotate oils frequently to avoid sensitivities. 1 drop per 1 ½ tsps. of carrier oil Great oils include Marjoram, Frankincense, Lemon, Cedarwood, Sandalwood, Ginger, Lime, etc. Hot and potent oils like Oregano, Wintergreen, Cinnamon Bark, Peppermint, Rosemary, etc.
6-12 years Use oils as needed 1 drop per 1 teaspoon carrier oil Great oils include Vetiver, Marjoram, Frankincense, Lemon, Cedarwood, Sandalwood, Ginger, Lime, Vetiver, etc. Be very cautious with stronger oils.
Adults Use oils as needed 2 drops per 1 teaspoon of carrier oil Most essential oils are fine as long as diluted properly. Use caution with stronger oils.

If this chart is difficult to read from your phone or device, click here for a PDF version of the chart.



What are essential oils and how do they work?


essential oils

The ancient plant wisdom contained in pure essential oils has been used for thousands of years to balance the body and support wellness. There is an enormous amount of research on the plant kingdom, and approximately 40% of prescription drugs in the United States are based on compounds found within plants. “Essential” refers to the unique volatile fluid coursing through each plant form (seeds, roots, flowers, bark, leaves, peels, rinds) that gives it therapeutic properties. We like to think of it as the “soul” of the plant, or its life force.

During a low-heat, slow-steam distillation process, the microscopic molecules that make up essential oils become highly concentrated. Because these molecules are so incredibly small, they are able to penetrate every cell in our body, and can even cross the blood-brain barrier.

There are approximately 40 million trillion molecules in one drop of essential oil. These molecules are made up of compounds, the most common being phenols, monoterpenes and sesquiterpenes. These compounds, which are found in certain essential oils, have the ability to clean cell receptor sites, which help to support a healthy body, deliver oxygen to cells and tissues, and can de-program miswritten codes in cellular memory (Stewart, 2005).

Ok, so why Young Living?

The Joyful Oilers are very particular when it comes to which products we use in our homes and what we feed our children. We read labels and want to know the source. This also applies to how we choose which essential oils to use. Quality matters. Young Living cultivates, harvests, and distills oils on farms that they own or partner with so they have the unique ability to verify purity and quality at every step of the process. We appreciate the extensive laboratory testing and third-party audits, and it’s no wonder they have routinely exceeded industry-leading quality standards since 1993. They are global stewards of our planet.

There are many brands of essential oils available, and while there are other reputable brands, we only use Young Living (YL) in our recipes. YL uses non-GMO seeds and sustainable farming practices (no chemical pesticides or fertilizers). We appreciate that we can visit their farms across the world. We know their oils are unadulterated and they don’t use fillers, toxic extenders, or synthetic materials. YL only uses first distillation oils for maximum potency (i.e. when you use a tea bag for a strong cup of tea, instead of re-using it to make a second or third weaker cup.) Thus, it may require many more drops from another brand, to achieve what a single drop of YL oil can do. They are pure enough to use on our children, and we don’t take that lightly!

YL follows and tests every batch of oil from when the seed is planted in the ground through the seal being placed on the bottle before it is sent out. They are the only company that offers a SEED to SEAL guarantee. Learn more by watching this video:


When you’re ready to join the Young Living family, contact your favorite Joyful Oiler to help get you started. For more information on the best way to get started, click here, or if you already know you’re ready to roll, click here to buy the Premium Starter kit now. Happy oiling!



Do I really NEED all the oils in the PSK?


Dewdrop diffuser and premium starter kit oils

So, a question I get a lot is this: “Do I really need the whole kit?”  And the short answer is, “Yes. Yes you do.”

I started out trying oils and blends here and there from a friend and it was fine—for a while—but having my own account has been priceless. Especially when I want an oil that is limited to 1 bottle per month. But I digress.  When you buy the kit you become a wholesale member, which means when you run out of precious oils and need to buy more you get 24% off of the retail price. Forever. And no, there are no membership fees. You buy  a kit, and BOOM! You’re a member. Just like that.

“Ok,” you say, “That’s great. But I don’t think I’ll have use for 11 oils. I just want lavender.” Fair enough. But you see, that’s what I thought too.  I thought “I don’t want to spend the money and then not end up using the other 10 oils.” Lucky for me, I bought my oils through a friend who is part of a large group of oilers called The Lemon Droppers, and they showed me HUNDREDS of ways I could use oils in my home, and because they have replaced so many of the things I was buying from the store, I am actually saving money. Not to mention these are much, much healthier than what I was using before.

As I mentioned in a previous post, the Premium Starter Kit is the best value since it is $330 worth of products for only $160 (plus tax & shipping.)  It includes 11 bottles of essential oil, a high quality diffuser, 2 packets of NingXia Red antioxidant infusion drink, 10 samples of some of Young Living’s most popular oils, 10 glass mini bottles so you can make a to-go kit or share oils with your friends, 10 business cards (in case you decide you want to try your hand at “doing the business”—totally optional and NOT required), a roller fitment so you can turn one of your bottles into an easy-to-apply roller bottle, a beautiful product guide, Essential Oil magazine and more. Plus, it makes you a wholesale member automatically so you get 24% off of all future purchases. Sweet!

So let’s talk about those 11 essential oils. I am going to go through each oil and give you just a small sampling of ways you can use them. Are you ready? Ok, here we go!

lavender essential oil


Lavender Essential Oil Uses:

  • Treat yourself to this well-loved aroma by adding a few drops of oil to lotions, shampoos, and skin care products.
  • Create a spa-like retreat by combining 1 cup Epsom salt and 4 drops oil and adding to a hot bath.
  • Make a basic homemade body scrub with coconut oil, sugar, and Lavender essential oil.
  • Unwind with a Lavender-infused neck or back massage.
  • Use Lavender as part of your evening routine. Rub oil on the bottom of your feet before bed or spritz your pillow with distilled water and Lavender mixed in a spray bottle.
  • Create a DIY room freshener with Lavender or diffuse it to banish stale odors.



Frankincense Essential Oil Uses:

  • Invite elevated spiritual experiences every day by diffusing this oil in your home or office.
  • Add Frankincense to your daytime lotion or night cream for a custom moisturizer that highlights your natural beauty and helps diminish the look of scars and wrinkles.
  • Incorporate Frankincense into your yoga ritual by diffusing this oil during your routine and following up with a post-practice massage.
  • Rub on to the base of your neck before doing things that cause you occasional stress or worry.
  • Take in a capsule to help you stay above the wellness line.



R.C. Essential Oil Uses:

  • Rub on your chest and back of the neck before an early-morning workout to support your respiratory system.
  • Use with V-6 Vegetable Oil Complex for a foot or back massage after your gym routine, outdoor adventure, or yoga practice.
  • Place a few drops in a hot bath or shower. The warm water will calm and soothe you, and the oil will diffuse with the steam for an invigorating and empowering experience.
  • Brighten your outlook during early-morning errands by applying R.C. oil to your chest and wrists.
  • Diffuse to support your respiratory system during a cough or other times when you would like to breathe easier.

Panaway essential oil blend







Panaway Essential Oil Uses:

  • Dilute with V-6 Vegetable Oil Complex and use as a massage oil to soothe muscles and joints after a vigorous workout or after a long day of work.
  • Alleviate occasional minor head tension.
  • Rub on to bruises.
  • Apply to soothe any minor discomforts on your body.


Purification essential oil blend

Purification Essential Oil Uses:

  • Add a few drops to laundry to give your wash a great-smelling boost.
  • Place a few drops on cotton balls and stash them wherever necessary: the car, closets and drawers, air vents, or stinky gym shoes.
  • Use in the car with a USB or travel diffuser to eliminate lingering scents of fast food trips or the soccer carpool.
  • Refresh linens with a spritz of Purification, diluted with distilled water.
  • Create an on-the-go air freshener with a spray bottle, distilled water, and Purification. Keep it in your bag to freshen up offices, public restrooms, hotel rooms, and cars.


Peppermint Vitality essential oil supplement

Peppermint Vitality Essential Oil Uses:

  • Add to your daily dietary supplements as overall support for healthy digestive system comfort. Simply add 1–2 drops in a vegetarian gel capsule and take daily or as needed.
  • Include a drop in a tall glass of cool water for a refreshing start to your morning.
  • Blend with your pre-workout drink for an energizing start or wind down after your workout with a mint-infused chocolate or vanilla protein shake.
  • Use in baking and in a wide variety of desserts, or include a drop in a glass of water if you want to avoid sugar cravings.


Lemon Vitality Essential Oil Supplement

Lemon Vitality Essential Oil Uses:

  • Add to a tall glass of cold water for a fresh drink to start your day and help support a healthy pH level in your body.
  • Add 1–2 drops to a vegetarian gel capsule and take daily or as needed for increased mental focus and clarity.
  • Get rid of household dirt and grime the healthy way. Use it on sticky residues from stickers, crayons etc.
  • Create custom vinaigrettes or marinades to add a bright taste to summer salads and grilling.
  • Add it to tea, baked goods, homemade preserves, and other treats.
  • Add 1 drop in plain or vanilla yogurt. Top with fresh berries.
  • Combine with savory foods such as chicken, fish, shrimp, and vegetables and with sides such as noodles, rice, or pasta salad.


Thieves Vitality Essential Oil blend supplement

Thieves Vitality Essential Oil Uses:

  • Add 1–2 drops to a vegetarian gel capsule and take daily or as needed as a dietary supplement to support healthy immune function, especially when others around you are not feeling 100%.
  • Put a drop or a swirl of Thieves Vitality essential oil in your morning juice, tea, or coffee. The spicy, sweet flavor will also give your morning beverage a flavor boost.
  • Gargle to support oral health.
  • Take a shot of NingXia Red with a drop of Thieves Vitality for a quick, spicy boost to your daily NingXia Red shot.
  • Use it in your DIY hand sanitizing and foaming hand wash recipes. Spray door knobs, shopping cart handles etc during times when germs are being spread around rapidly.

Copaiba Vitality Essential Oil Supplement






Copaiba Vitality Essential Oil Uses:

  • Add a drop to a spoonful of raw honey to help soothe a sore throat.
  • It promotes healthy skin. Apply to your face as an all natural moisturizer. Bonus, it can help smooth the appearance of wrinkles!
  • Take in a veggie capsule to support the respiratory and digestive systems.
  • Layer it on top of other oils, such as Panaway, to drive the oils deeper into your body and help support your body’s natural anti-inflammatory response

Digize Vitality Essential Oil Supplement

DiGize Essential Oil Uses:

  • To help you wind down for the evening, diffuse DiGize essential oil to enjoy its relaxing aroma.
  • The Earthy, relaxing scent of the essential oils in DiGize makes it a perfect fit for diffusing in the home or even the car to help your kids feel calm during long rides.
  • DiGize essential oil is one of YL’s most unique essential oil blends, combining Tarragon, Ginger, Peppermint, Juniper, Lemongrass, Anise, and Patchouli oils for a spicy, exotic aromatic blend. DiGize oil also includes Fennel essential oil, the use of which dates back to ancient Egypt. This blend is excellent for supporting digestive health. Have a drop in some water or in a veggie capsule before or after a heavy meal.

Stress Away Essential Oil Blend







Stress Away Essential Oil Uses:

  • Young Living’s Stress Away essential oil blend is a natural solution created to combat normal stresses that creep into everyday life. Stress Away is the first product to contain the unique stress-relieving combination of lime and vanilla pure, therapeutic-grade essential oils. Add a drop to a glass of water to help you feel more relaxed.
  • Stress Away also includes copaiba and lavender to reduce mental rigidity and restore equilibrium. Add your roller fitment to your bottle to use as a tropical smelling perfume for those times when you desire to feel more calm.
  • Featuring powerful plant constituents, such as the cedrol found in cedarwood and the eugenol that occurs naturally in vanilla, Stress Away can help induce relaxation and reduce occasional nervous tension. Put a few drops into your diffuser to promote a calm, relaxing environment in your home, car or office.

So those are the 11 oils that come in your kit, and that was just a small fraction of what you can use them for. When you grab a kit through me I will walk you through the unboxing of your kit and share other ways you can use your oils. Plus I will show you how to use your diffuser, how to apply your roller fitment to the oil of your choice and I will give you a handy essential oil guide to help you get started. If you’re on Facebook, I will also introduce you to thousands of other oilers in my secret essential oil education groups where we share essential oil recipes, DIY tips, tips on supporting your wellness and emotional well being and so much more. And if you ever decide you might be interested in checking out the business side of things in a non-threatening and no-pressure way, I have groups for that too.

So, if you want to grab a kit from me, what are you waiting for? Click here for instructions on how to become a Joyful Oiler, or if you feel like you have more questions feel free to contact me. 🙂 You can email me at or you can friend me on Facebook. If you prefer you can even give me a call or shoot me a text.  My cell number is (760) 658-0655.  I am always happy to help! Remember, once you’re a member I will send you your free essential oil guide and I will personally walk you through your kit, either online or in person if you’re local to Southern California. Happy oiling!


Curious about becoming a Joyful Oiler?

Young Living Premium Starter Kit

Oh, hey you! I’m so glad you’re here. I’m assuming you want more info on how to become a Joyful Oiler, so first let’s chat about what that actually means. The Joyful Oilers are a tribe of Young Living essential oil enthusiasts. We are all about spreading JOY, LOVE and, of course, sharing our essential oils. Some of us “do the business” because it helps us to help people (and bonus: it pays for our oil obsession) but that is never EVER a requirement to be a Joyful Oiler.

If you do what most of us have done and buy a Premium Starter kit that just means you get to take advantage of wholesale pricing. Yes, it also means you’re *eligible* to “do the business”, but again, we will never pressure you to do that. Ever. Also, please don’t worry. Buying a kit and becoming a member does not obligate you to a monthly shipment. You don’t have to buy a certain dollar amount every month and there are no hidden membership fees. Buying a Premium Starter Kit automatically makes you a wholesale member, so you get to save 24% off of the retail price. I dunno about you, but I love saving money!

So what do you get when you buy a Premium Starter Kit? Check out the photo above. It includes:

  • A Dew Drop diffuser so you can create a spa-like environment in your own home
  • 11 bottles of the most popular essential oils including Lavender, Lemon, Peppermint, Frankincense, Copaiba, Thieves, PanAway, DiGize, R.C., Purification and Stress Away
  • 2 packets of NingXia Red, Young Living’s powerful nutrient infused berry juice
  • An Aromaglide fitment so you can make your own oil roll on
  • 10 sample packets to share with friends or keep in your handbag
  • 10 business cards (in case you decide later you want to try the biz—again, optional)
  • 10 mini glass bottles to share oils or make your own travel kits
  • A beautiful product guide and product price list
  • Essential Oil Magazine
  • Essential Edge, a publication by Young Living
  • Member resources
  • Exclusive access to wholesale pricing (24% off) for this order and all future orders from the world leader in essential oils.
  • Peace of mind that you are truly getting the highest quality essential oils on Earth. They are grown organically. No harmful chemicals or cheap filler here!
  • Over $300 worth of amazing stuff for only $160 (plus tax and shipping.)

When you grab a kit from me I will introduce you to a large and loving community of essential oil lovers and you can learn and grow along with us. I will be there to hold your hand, to chat oils with you, to go through your kit with you when you get it (either in person or via Skype if you’re far away) and to answer any questions along the way. You’ll get my personal email address and cell phone number. I am always happy to talk with fellow Joyful Oilers. I also throw in an essential oil handbook to help get you rolling. It will come after you’re all signed up. Eep! I’m so excited! You’re gonna love it. 🙂

Here are some detailed instructions on how to order a kit. It can feel a little overwhelming for some, but I am happy to walk you through it. 

I HIGHLY recommend that you grab a Premium Starter Kit for $160.  It is the best kit to get you started on your oily journey, and at only $160  it offers you THE MOST BANG FOR YOUR BUCK.  As I mentioned above, it comes with 11 bottles of essential oil including 5ml bottles of Lavender, Peppermint, Lemon, Frankincense, Thieves, Purification, PanAway, DiGize, RC, Copaiba and Stress Away.  Individually these oils run $15-$73 each so purchasing the kit saves you a ton of money. Got it? Ok, here we go!



Membership sign up step 1

Step 2: Choose “Member” to receive a 24% discount on all Young Living products.  Remember, there is NO requirement to sell a Young Living product, ever, and there is no minimum to buy each month as a member. Important: If you choose “retail customer” a kit is not available to you and you will have to pay full retail price on all of your oils.

Enroller and Sponsor 3471989

Step 3: Make sure my member numbers are in the Sponsor ID and Enroller ID fields (they should be put there if you entered with that link in step 1 – 3471989. (See photo above.) After you click “continue” this box will pop up and you will know you’ve done it right. 🙂

Enroller and sponsor Crystal Silvas welcomes you


Step 4: Choose your starter kit and diffuser. (See pic below.)  The Premium Starter Kit with the Dewdrop or Home diffuser will be selected by default, so if that’s what you want you can proceed, otherwise, upgrade to the diffuser that you prefer. Scroll down.

OPTIONAL autoship aka Essential Rewards


step 2 automatic shipments optional

Step 5: Next they will ask you about a monthly auto ship, Essential Rewards. (See pic above.) This is NOT, I repeat NOT a requirement for wholesale membership, so feel free to ignore this and click continue. If you want to sign up for Essential Rewards (ER), more power to you! I love love LOVE ER because it earns me free oils every month on orders I’d be placing anyway, but again, this is totally optional! If you ignore the box, this message will pop up:

Proceed without autoship

If you don’t want a monthly auto ship, then click the “Proceed to Checkout” button on the right.

Step 6: Finally we come to the membership information page. Fill out your personal information. Create a username, password (with at least 1 uppercase, 1 lowercase and 1 number) and 4 digit PIN number. It’s very important that you write these things down so you can remember them as they will be needed to contact customer service and log in to place additional orders in the future.

Step 7: Select your tax information choice. For most people it will be “Individual.” Fill out your info. Please note, they will ask for your SSN, but no worries. This will only be used if you earn $600 this year sharing Young Living products, but if you have no plans on trying the business then this won’t affect you at all.  If you do end up making $600 or more then they’ll send you a 1099 form in the mail, because it’s required by law.  Young Living will never share this info with anyone.  Just so you are very clear, this information will only be used if you decide the business side of Young Living is something you want to do.  Again, The Joyful Oilers will never pressure you to do that and it is never a requirement to keep your 24% discount.  Agree to the Terms and Conditions and then click “Agree and Continue.”

Step 8: Select your shipping method. If you need your oils to be shipped faster than the carrier, you may indicate that here by choosing the faster method. Please note that choosing faster shipping does not rush the packing of your items and shipping can still take up to 10 business days. It is usually faster but we want to make sure you know what to expect. Fill out your billing information, address etc. Click “next.”

Step 9: Double check that all the info is correct and then click the button that says “Activate and Checkout.” Your account will not be created until that button is clicked. See the photo below. 🙂

Last step! Activate and check out!

Step 10: You can add additional oils if you want, but otherwise you’re all done.  If you need help supporting a specific body system, just ask me and I’ll help you out.  If you have read these instructions and you’re still not totally clear on how to sign up, no worries!  Give a call/text and I can walk you through it in real time.  Again, my name is Crystal and my phone number is (760) 658-0655.  I’m on Pacific Standard Time where I love in Southern California. 🙂

Congratulations, friend!  You’re now a Joyful Oiler! ::high five::  I remember how excited I was to get my starter kit.  It’s definitely one of the best decisions I have ever made.  Your membership will stay active as long as you spend at least $50 in a calendar year.  You do NOT have to continue to “renew” your membership and there are NO membership fees.  That kit purchase was a one time thing and you will remain a member as long as you spend that $50 a year.  Trust me, you’re going to be hooked and spending $50 on oily stuff will not be hard to do.

When you grab a kit through me I will be notified by email and I’ll reach out to you so I can help you navigate the essential oil world.  I will share with you recipes, my personal experiences, tips, tricks and tons of resources.  You will also have the option to join my secret essential oil groups on Facebook where you can learn a ton and meet other Joyful Oilers, and I will send you a free essential oil welcome guide in PDF format. Prepare to be completely smitten. Don’t say I didn’t warn ya. 😉


A Joy Filled Sunday (and a cookie recipe!)

Joy. Cookies. Flowers.

Today was pretty great.  I love Sundays anyway, but today was extra special because 1) we got some much needed rain followed by some surprise sunshine 2) we had a family potluck at church 3) I baked some chocolate chip cookies from scratch (I’ll post the recipe below) 4) the drummer in our church jazz band turned 94(!!!) years old today and 5) I wore some Joy essential oil as an all natural, non-toxic perfume.

Let me tell you about Joy. Joy is a luxuriously exotic blend of Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, Geranium, Lemon, Coriander, Tangerine, Jasmine, Roman Chamomile, Palmarosa, and Rose essential oils. These oils harmonize beautifully for a sweet, uplifting aroma. The Joyful Oilers love this blend because it creates magnetic energy and literally brings joy to our hearts. Not only does it smell divine, but it can also help to support emotional healing so you can be the inspired, THRIVING, joyous person you were created to be.

If you want to know more about Young Living’s Joy essential oil blend, shoot me an email and I’ll get back to you. If you want to get some at the wholesale price, follow my instructions on how to grab a kit and become a Joyful Oiler. If you go directly to Young Living, be sure that my member number is in the enroller and sponsor fields, 3471989. But enough about that. I promised you guys a cookie recipe! 😉

Super Delicious Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe


3⁄4 cup real cane sugar sugar
1 cup brown sugar
1 cup butter, softened
1 tablespoon vanilla
2 large eggs, slightly beaten
3 cups all-purpose, unbleached white flour
3⁄4 teaspoon baking soda
3⁄4 teaspoon sea salt
3 cups semi-sweet chocolate chips
1 cup walnuts, chopped or 1 cup pecans (optional)


Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
Cream sugars and butter.
Add vanilla and eggs and mix well.
Combine dry ingredients together and gradually add to creamed mixture.
Stir in chips and nuts.
Roll into 1 1/4″ balls and place on non-stick cookie sheets, about 2″ apart.
Bake for 10 to 12 minutes.

This recipe yields about 6 dozen cookies (depending on the size), perfect for a sweet addition to your next potluck or gathering. 🙂 Enjoy!

Hello, lovely.

Hello lovely

Thanks for stopping by! Grab a cuppa tea and stay a while, won’t you? Welcome to The Joyful Oilers. We’re a tribe of ladies (and some gentleman—all are welcome) who love ourselves some Young Living essential oils. We are all about spreading JOY and LOVE and all things that are good and beautiful. We are all inclusive. We love spreading the word about our oils because they are seriously amazing. Life transforming even. They help us maintain our good health. They help us feel less stressed out when life gets a little cray. They help our skin look gorgeous without a bunch of harmful chemicals. They even stop our other halves from snoring at night. (No, seriously!) Not to mention they smell ah-MAZING. They put joy in our hearts, and for some of us, money in our bank accounts. They are a way of life and we want everyone to know about them. This blog will offer you a glimpse into my oily life (and the lives of a few of my dearest friends!) I hope you enjoy your visit, and please come back soon!